Patience

ˈpeɪʃəns

noun

the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset

Patience is considered a virtue in many cultures and religions, as it is seen as a positive quality that enables individuals to maintain composure and resilience in challenging situations.

My time is short; my hands lose patience.” “Go slow,” a dragging, clotted voice said from within the wall.

Stephen King

The Gunslinger (The Dark Tower, Book 1)

‘These hobbits will sit on the edge of ruin and discuss the pleasures of the table, or the small doings of their fathers, grandfathers, and great-grandfathers, and remoter cousins to the ninth degree, if you encourage them with undue patience.

J. R. R. Tolkien

The Two Towers

I don’t lack patience.” “Well, then – how well do you know your own daughter?” “How well can any individual know any other?

Asimov, Isaac

Foundation 3 - Second Foundation

One day they harried and pestered her with arguments, reasonings, objections, and other windy and wordy trivialities, gathered out of the works of this and that and the other great theological authority, until at last her patience vanished, and she turned upon them sharply and said: “I don’t know A from B; but I know this: that I am come by command of the Lord of Heaven to deliver Orleans from the English power and crown the King of Rheims, and the matters ye are puttering over are of no consequence!” Necessarily those were trying days for her, and wearing for everybody that took part; but her share was the hardest, for she had no holidays, but must be always on hand and stay the long hours through, whereas this, that, and the other inquisitor could absent himself and rest up from his fatigues when he got worn out.

Mark Twain

Personal Recollections of Joan of Arc

“I am sure,” she added, “if it was not for such good friends I do not know what would become of her, for she is very ill indeed, and suffers a vast deal, though with the greatest patience in the world, which is always the way with her, for she has, without exception, the sweetest temper I ever met with.

Jane Austen

Pride and Prejudice

Breed, losing patience with me again.

Kurt Vonnegut

Cat's Cradle

Especially if I see millions of people standing in one of those long, terrible lines, all the way down the block, waiting with this terrific patience for seats and all.

Salinger, J.D.

The Catcher in the Rye

After Gilly, he had no patience for the fat boy’s fears.

George R. R. Martin

A Dance with Dragons: A Song of Ice and Fire: Book Five

Time, that aged nurse, Rock’d me to patience.

John Keats

Poetry

“We shall if everybody wants it; it can’t be helped. … But believe me, my dear boy, there is nothing stronger than those two: patience and time, they will do it all.

Leo Tolstoy

War and Peace

Larry at last lost his patience and told the monster-shouter that, given a choice between recording “Hang On, Snoopy” and being tied down and receiving a Coca-Cola enema, he would pick the enema.

King, Stephen

The Stand

If you had had patience for a twelvemonth, at most, couldn’t you have got him convicted, and sent safely out of the kingdom; perhaps for life?” “Whose turn would that have served, my dear?” inquired the Jew humbly.

Charles Dickens

Oliver Twist

But the Fremen had learned patience from men with whips.

Herbert, Frank

Dune

‘Much more important is your enthusiasm, patience, and a good sense of fun!’”“You’d need more than a good sense of fun to liaise with my uncle,” said Harry darkly.

J. K. Rowling

Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix

Ruth has a set of shoulders that would grace an ox, but she doesn’t have an ox’s patience.

Gregory Maguire

Confessions of an Ugly Step Sister

He ate more than I did, and it was in vain I pointed out that our only chance of life was to stop in the house until the Martians had done with their pit, that in that long patience a time might presently come when we should need food.

H. G. Wells

The War of the Worlds

We may then arrive in time; for if he escape not at night we shall come on him in daytime, boxed up and at our mercy; for he dare not be his true self, awake and visible, lest he be discovered.” There was no more to be said, so we waited in patience until the dawn; at which time we might learn more from Mrs. Harker.

Bram Stoker

Dracula

Changes in estate also issue from this, for if, to one who governs himself with caution and patience, times and affairs converge in such a way that his administration is successful, his fortune is made; but if times and affairs change, he is ruined if he does not change his course of action.

Niccolò Machiavelli

The Prince

Some drew nearer, hoping to overhear the conversation, who were themselves among the guilty—and surely that was a thing to try the patience of a saint.

Upton Sinclair

The Jungle

As, when thick hail comes rattling in the wind, The plowman, passenger, and lab’ring hind For shelter to the neighb’ring covert fly, Or hous’d, or safe in hollow caverns lie; But, that o’erblown, when heav’n above ’em smiles, Return to travel, and renew their toils: Aeneas thus, o’erwhelmed on ev’ry side, The storm of darts, undaunted, did abide; And thus to Lausus loud with friendly threat’ning cried: “Why wilt thou rush to certain death, and rage In rash attempts, beyond thy tender age, Betray’d by pious love?” Nor, thus forborne, The youth desists, but with insulting scorn Provokes the ling’ring prince, whose patience, tir’d, Gave place; and all his breast with fury fir’d.

Virgil

The Aeneid

Only then does he feel the beloved one fully in his possession, when she no longer deceives herself about him, when she loves him just as much for the sake of his devilry and concealed insatiability, as for his goodness, patience, and spirituality.

Friedrich Nietzsche

Beyond Good and Evil

For hardly have we mortals by long toilings extracted from this world’s vast bulk its small but valuable sperm; and then, with weary patience, cleansed ourselves from its defilements, and learned to live here in clean tabernacles of the soul; hardly is this done, when—There she blows!—the ghost is spouted up, and away we sail to fight some other world, and go through young life’s old routine again.

Herman Melville

Moby Dick

Losing patience, they turned to Pinocchio and said in a bantering tone: “Goodbye till tomorrow.

Carlo Collodi

The Adventures of Pinocchio

Patience has but a small share in the character of the person of whom the book treats; on the contrary, his grief is often impetuous; but he still endeavours to keep a guard upon it, and seems determined, in the midst of accumulating ills, to impose upon himself the hard duty of contentment.

Thomas Paine

The Age of Reason

"Do not presume upon my patience, ser .

George R.R. Martin

The Tales of Dunk & Egg

“Let us first see,” said he, “whether it is possible to remove the traces of my entrance here—our future tranquillity depends upon our jailers being entirely ignorant of it.” Advancing to the opening, he stooped and raised the stone easily in spite of its weight; then, fitting it into its place, he said: “You removed this stone very carelessly; but I suppose you had no tools to aid you.” “Why,” exclaimed Dantès, with astonishment, “do you possess any?” “I made myself some; and with the exception of a file, I have all that are necessary—a chisel, pincers, and lever.” “Oh, how I should like to see these products of your industry and patience.” “Well, in the first place, here is my chisel.” So saying, he displayed a sharp strong blade, with a handle made of beechwood.

Alexandre Dumas

The Count of Monte Cristo

I am angry nearly every day of my life, Jo; but I have learned not to show it; and I still hope to learn not to feel it, though it may take me another forty years to do so.” The patience and the humility of the face she loved so well was a better lesson to Jo than the wisest lecture, the sharpest reproof.

Louisa May Alcott

Little Women

“If this ‘Explanation’ gets into anybody’s hands, and they have patience to read it through, they may consider me a madman, or a schoolboy, or, more likely, a man condemned to die, who thought it only natural to conclude that all men, excepting himself, esteem life far too lightly, live it far too carelessly and lazily, and are, therefore, one and all, unworthy of it.

Fyodor Dostoevsky

The Idiot

“You’re enough to try the patience of an oyster!” “I wish I had our Dinah here, I know I do!” said Alice aloud, addressing nobody in particular.

Lewis Carroll

Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland

He admitted that he had committed an extreme and blameworthy act; that that loaf of bread would probably not have been refused to him had he asked for it; that, in any case, it would have been better to wait until he could get it through compassion or through work; that it is not an unanswerable argument to say, “Can one wait when one is hungry?” That, in the first place, it is very rare for anyone to die of hunger, literally; and next, that, fortunately or unfortunately, man is so constituted that he can suffer long and much, both morally and physically, without dying; that it is therefore necessary to have patience; that that would even have been better for those poor little children; that it had been an act of madness for him, a miserable, unfortunate wretch, to take society at large violently by the collar, and to imagine that one can escape from misery through theft; that that is in any case a poor door through which to escape from misery through which infamy enters; in short, that he was in the wrong.

Victor Hugo

Les Misérables

She had a genius for knowing when a cough is a thing to have no patience with and when it needs stocking round your throat.

J. M. Barrie

Peter and Wendy

Now, kneel, as befits a child of Rome, before you try my patience.” Around Mars’s feet, the ground boiled in a circle of flame.

Rick Riordan

The Son of Neptune

An Old Mortality, say rather an Immortality, with unwearied patience and faith making plain the image engraven in men’s bodies, the God of whom they are but defaced and leaning monuments.

Henry David Thoreau

Walden

At the pianola, Henry Wimbush, smoking a long cigar through a tunnelled pillar of amber, trod out the shattering dance music with serene patience.

Aldous Huxley

Crome Yellow

Give me the pay I have served for, Give to sing the songs of the great Idea, take all the rest, I have loved the earth, sun, animals, I have despised riches, I have given alms to every one that ask’d, stood up for the stupid and crazy, devoted my income and labor to others, Hated tyrants, argued not concerning God, had patience and indulgence toward the people, taken off my hat to nothing known or unknown, Gone freely with powerful uneducated persons and with the young, and with the mothers of families, Read these leaves to myself in the open air, tried them by trees, stars, rivers, Dismiss’d whatever insulted my own soul or defiled my body, Claim’d nothing to myself which I have not carefully claim’d for others on the same terms, Sped to the camps, and comrades found and accepted from every State, (Upon this breast has many a dying soldier lean’d to breathe his last, This arm, this hand, this voice, have nourish’d, rais’d, restored, To life recalling many a prostrate form;) I am willing to wait to be understood by the growth of the taste of myself, Rejecting none, permitting all.

Walt Whitman

Leaves of Grass

"At least he's alive," says Plutarch, as if he's losing patience with the lot of us.

Suzanne Collins

Mockingjay

It requires more philosophy than I possess to bear this injustice with patience.

Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley

Frankenstein; Or, The Modern Prometheus

She loses her patience and just climbs the stairs like all the other Feds.

Neal Stephenson

Snow Crash

I want patience, said he, with those who without wit to enliven or learning to instruct, revile an ennobling profession which, saving the reverence due to the Deity, is the greatest power for happiness upon the earth.

James Joyce

Ulysses

Life was growing too complicated for this childlike people, whose strength had lain in simplicity, and patience, and in their capacity for sacrifice.

T. E. Lawrence

Seven Pillars of Wisdom

She said: “To learn patience in the Bene Gesserit Way, you must begin by recognizing the essential, raw instability of our universe.

Frank Herbert

Children of Dune

“If he be Mr. Hyde,” he had thought, “I shall be Mr. Seek.” And at last his patience was rewarded.

Robert Louis Stevenson

The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde

The Folly of Being Comforted One that is ever kind said yesterday: “Your well-beloved’s hair has threads of grey, And little shadows come about her eyes; Time can but make it easier to be wise Though now it seem impossible, and so Patience is all that you have need of.” No, I have not a crumb of comfort, not a grain, Time can but make her beauty over again: Because of that great nobleness of hers The fire that stirs about her, when she stirs Burns but more clearly.

W. B. Yeats

Poetry

Now and then Babbitt suddenly agreed with Paul in an admission which contradicted all his defense of duty and Christian patience, and at each admission he had a curious reckless joy.

Sinclair Lewis

Babbitt

I had no patience with what I thought was her silly fear of unpleasantness.

Agatha Christie

The Murder of Roger Ackroyd

Patience perforce with wilful choler meeting Makes my flesh tremble in their different greeting.

William Shakespeare

Romeo and Juliet

If man can by patience select variations useful to him, why, under changing and complex conditions of life, should not variations useful to nature’s living products often arise, and be preserved or selected?

Charles Darwin

The Origin of Species

In particular, Mr. Delaney assured me that all kinds of bears in the Sierra are very shy, and that hunters found far greater difficulty in getting within gunshot of them than of deer or indeed any other animal in the Sierra, and if I was anxious to see much of them I should have to wait and watch with endless Indian patience and pay no attention to anything else.

John Muir

My First Summer in the Sierra

Or is it the other way around?” Her sorrow and exhaustion had drained her of her patience.

Gaiman, Neil

Neverwhere

But Heaven, and all the Greeks, have heard my wrongs; To Heaven, and all the Greeks, redress belongs; Yet this I ask (nor be it ask'd in vain), A bark to waft me o'er the rolling main, The realms of Pyle and Sparta to explore, And seek my royal sire from shore to shore; If, or to fame his doubtful fate be known, Or to be learn'd from oracles alone, If yet he lives, with patience I forbear, Till the fleet hours restore the circling year; But if already wandering in the train Of empty shades, I measure back the main, Plant the fair column o'er the mighty dead, And yield his consort to the nuptial bed."

Homer

The Odyssey

Their understanding, good humor, and sage advice helped through the tough bits, and I will never cease to be grateful for their patience.

Martin, George, R. R.

A Dance With Dragons

They were both masters of patience.

Hermann Hesse

Siddhartha

By dint of hard service it had acquired, as it were, moral qualities of patience and energy; and when he was given some heavy work, he stood on it in preference to its fellow.

Gustave Flaubert

Madame Bovary

Only add Deeds to thy knowledge answerable; add faith, Add virtue, patience, temperance; add love, By name to come called charity, the soul Of all the rest: then wilt thou not be loth To leave this Paradise, but shalt possess A Paradise within thee, happier far.

John Milton

Paradise Lost

Disdain hath power to kill, and patience dies Slain by suspicion, be it false or true; And deadly is the force of jealousy; Long absence makes of life a dreary void; No hope of happiness can give repose To him that ever fears to be forgot; And death, inevitable, waits in hall.

Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra

Don Quixote

All he could ever see was Aarfy, with whose fustian, moon-faced ineptitude he had finally lost all patience, and there were minutes of agonizing fury and frustration in the sky when he hungered to be demoted again to a wing plane with a loaded machine gun in the compartment instead of the precision bombsight that he really had no need for, a powerful, heavy fifty-caliber machine gun he could seize vengefully in both hands and turn loose savagely against all the demons tyrannizing him: at the smoky black puffs of the flak itself; at the German antiaircraft gunners below whom he could not even see and could not possibly harm with his machine gun even if he ever did take the time to open fire, at Havermeyer and Appleby in the lead plane for their fearless straight and level bomb run on the second mission to Bologna where the flak from two hundred and twenty-four cannons had knocked out one of Orr’s engines for the very last time and sent him down ditching into the sea between Genoa and La Spezia just before the brief thunderstorm broke.

Heller, Joseph

Catch-22

I might have rebelled against these exasperating solos had it not been that he usually terminated them by playing in quick succession a whole series of my favourite airs as a slight compensation for the trial upon my patience.

Arthur Conan Doyle

A Study in Scarlet

When a nation is already overburdened with taxes, nothing but the necessities of a new war, nothing but either the animosity of national vengeance, or the anxiety for national security, can induce the people to submit, with tolerable patience, to a new tax.

Adam Smith

The Wealth of Nations