Kindness

ˈkaɪndnəs

noun

the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate

Kindness is a fundamental human virtue that emphasizes empathy, compassion, and treating others with understanding and generosity. Practicing kindness not only benefits others but also brings joy and fulfillment to the person showing kindness.

My dear little fellows, please believe me when I say that it was not out of kindness: that’s not even one of Uglúk’s faults.’ ‘I find it quite easy to believe,’ said Merry.

J. R. R. Tolkien

The Two Towers

And I can tie better than those that did this; if I had tied him the ropes had not cut his flesh.” The man looked on silent, while he was being bandaged, stealing a furtive glance at Joan’s face occasionally, such as an animal might that is receiving a kindness from an unexpected quarter and is gropingly trying to reconcile the act with its source.

Mark Twain

Personal Recollections of Joan of Arc

We must trespass a little longer on your kindness.” “Removed!” cried Bingley.

Jane Austen

Pride and Prejudice

“I am the very soul of kindness.

George R. R. Martin

A Storm of Swords

had I never seen, Or known your kindness, what might I have been?

John Keats

Poetry

He was always hearing such words as: “With your remarkable kindness,” or, “With your excellent heart,” “You are yourself so honorable, Count,” or, “Were he as clever as you,” and so on, till he began sincerely to believe in his own exceptional kindness and extraordinary intelligence, the more so as in the depth of his heart it had always seemed to him that he really was very kind and intelligent.

Leo Tolstoy

War and Peace

But she had the kindness to let me think it through for myself.

King, Stephen

The Mist

But, at length, he began, by slow degrees, to get better, and to be able to say sometimes, in a few tearful words, how deeply he felt the goodness of the two sweet ladies, and how ardently he hoped that when he grew strong and well again, he could do something to show his gratitude; only something, which would let them see the love and duty with which his breast was full; something, however slight, which would prove to them that their gentle kindness had not been cast away; but that the poor boy whom their charity had rescued from misery, or death, was eager to serve them with his whole heart and soul.

Charles Dickens

Oliver Twist

How can you tell what’s ruthless unless you’ve plumbed the depths of both cruelty and kindness?

Herbert, Frank

Dune

“I warned Sirius when we adopted twelve Grimmauld Place as our headquarters that Kreacher must be treated with kindness and respect.

J. K. Rowling

Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix

Clara has been sad, bitterly severed from the possibilities of her life, but is she incapable of kindness?

Gregory Maguire

Confessions of an Ugly Step Sister

But the artilleryman dissuaded me: “It’s no kindness to the right sort of wife,” he said, “to make her a widow;” and in the end I agreed to go with him, under cover of the woods, northward as far as Street Cobham before I parted with him.

H. G. Wells

The War of the Worlds

Oh, that I could give any idea of the scene; of that sweet, sweet, good, good woman in all the radiant beauty of her youth and animation, with the red scar on her forehead, of which she was conscious, and which we saw with grinding of our teeth—remembering whence and how it came; her loving kindness against our grim hate; her tender faith against all our fears and doubting; and we, knowing that so far as symbols went, she with all her goodness and purity and faith, was outcast from God.

Bram Stoker

Dracula

Of what help was kindness and decency on the part of employers—when they could not keep a job for him, when there were more harvesting-machines made than the world was able to buy!

Upton Sinclair

The Jungle

Yet, won by worth that cannot be withstood, Brib’d by my kindness to my kindred blood, Urg’d by my wife, who would not be denied, I promis’d my Lavinia for your bride: Her from her plighted lord by force I took; All ties of treaties, and of honour, broke: On your account I wag’d an impious war— With what success, ’tis needless to declare; I and my subjects feel, and you have had your share.

Virgil

The Aeneid

183 “I am affected, not because you have deceived me, but because I can no longer believe in you.” 184 There is a haughtiness of kindness which has the appearance of wickedness.

Friedrich Nietzsche

Beyond Good and Evil

He saw a thousand random meetings that weren’t random, ten thousand right decisions, a hundred thousand right answers, a million acts of unacknowledged kindness.

Stephen King

Wolves of the Calla

I’ll try a pagan friend, thought I, since Christian kindness has proved but hollow courtesy.

Herman Melville

Moby Dick

Would it be likely that I’d leave you now that you’re on the point of becoming rich and famous?” “It would all be yours,” he replied earnestly, “and surely the wealth of Galaxy itself would be yours before I could repay my debt to your kindness.” “But,” said Mis, casually, “if you would first help me–“ “What is that?” The psychologist paused, and smiled, “A little surface probe that doesn’t hurt.

Asimov, Isaac

Foundation 2 - Foundation and Empire

To think of all the kindness and loving care I received from her, to think that if I am now alive I owe it to her!

Carlo Collodi

The Adventures of Pinocchio

When he was squiring for Ser Arlan, Dunk had heard tales of other men who'd bought their knighthood with a kindness or a threat or a bag of silver coins, but never with a sister's maiden-head.

George R.R. Martin

The Tales of Dunk & Egg

“Monsieur,” continued she, turning to Monte Cristo, “will you do us the honor of passing the rest of the day with us?” “Believe me, madame, I feel most grateful for your kindness, but I got out of my travelling carriage at your door this morning, and I am ignorant how I am installed in Paris, which I scarcely know; this is but a trifling inquietude, I know, but one that may be appreciated.” “We shall have the pleasure another time,” said the countess; “you promise that?” Monte Cristo inclined himself without answering, but the gesture might pass for assent.

Alexandre Dumas

The Count of Monte Cristo

Even the sad, sour sisters should be kindly dealt with, because they have missed the sweetest part of life, if for no other reason; and, looking at them with compassion, not contempt, girls in their bloom should remember that they too may miss the blossom time; that rosy cheeks don’t last forever, that silver threads will come in the bonnie brown hair, and that, by and by, kindness and respect will be as sweet as love and admiration now.

Louisa May Alcott

Little Women

Of those visitors, many had been men of high rank and learning, some even freethinkers, attracted by curiosity, but all without exception had shown the profoundest reverence and delicacy, for here there was no question of money, but only, on the one side love and kindness, and on the other penitence and eager desire to decide some spiritual problem or crisis.

Fyodor Dostoevsky

The Brothers Karamazov

Then I might have pardoned!” On another occasion, alluding to the resistance offered by his ministry, he wrote in connection with a political criminal, who is one of the most generous figures of our day: “His pardon is granted; it only remains for me to obtain it.” Louis Philippe was as gentle as Louis IX and as kindly as Henri IV Now, to our mind, in history, where kindness is the rarest of pearls, the man who is kindly almost takes precedence of the man who is great.

Victor Hugo

Les Misérables

Just like its name, the place masked a whole lot of cruelty under a thin veneer of kindness.

Rick Riordan

The Son of Neptune

Men say, practically, Begin where you are and such as you are, without aiming mainly to become of more worth, and with kindness aforethought go about doing good.

Henry David Thoreau

Walden

“What a pleasure it is,” said Denis, “to do somebody a kindness.

Aldous Huxley

Crome Yellow

He sicken’d of his confinement—the doctor and officers made every allowance and kindness possible for him; then the close.)

Walt Whitman

Leaves of Grass

Still, just throwing me the bread was an enormous kindness that would have surely resulted in a beating if discovered.

Suzanne Collins

Hunger Games 1 - The Hunger Games

And God said to the Man, “Evil hath been thy life, and with evil didst thou requite good, and with wrongdoing kindness.

Oscar Wilde

Poetry

“Before I come on board your vessel,” said he, “will you have the kindness to inform me whither you are bound?” You may conceive my astonishment on hearing such a question addressed to me from a man on the brink of destruction and to whom I should have supposed that my vessel would have been a resource which he would not have exchanged for the most precious wealth the earth can afford.

Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley

Frankenstein; Or, The Modern Prometheus

Nay, she had even witnessed in the home circle deeds of violence caused by intemperance and had seen her own father, a prey to the fumes of intoxication, forget himself completely for if there was one thing of all things that Gerty knew it was the man who lifts his hand to a woman save in the way of kindness deserves to be branded as the lowest of the low.

James Joyce

Ulysses

His sterile experience robbed him of compassion and perverted his human kindness to the image of the waste in which he hid.

T. E. Lawrence

Seven Pillars of Wisdom

The arifa knew the ways to slay a demon and was always chosen “because he has the wisdom to be ruthless without being cruel, to know when kindness is in fact the way to greater cruelty.” But this thing had come to the point which Leto sought, and he said: “I can submit to the Mashhad.” “I’ll be the judge of any Spiritual Test,” Muriz said.

Frank Herbert

Children of Dune

To this rule, Dr. Jekyll was no exception; and as he now sat on the opposite side of the fire—a large, well-made, smooth-faced man of fifty, with something of a stylish cast perhaps, but every mark of capacity and kindness—you could see by his looks that he cherished for Mr. Utterson a sincere and warm affection.

Robert Louis Stevenson

The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde

In courtesy I’d have her chiefly learned; Hearts are not had as a gift but hearts are earned By those that are not entirely beautiful; Yet many, that have played the fool For beauty’s very self, has charm made wise, And many a poor man that has roved, Loved and thought himself beloved, From a glad kindness cannot take his eyes.

W. B. Yeats

Poetry

You’re keeping the whole car from starting!’ he said, and then I saw he was one of these dirty ill-bred hogs that kindness is wasted on, and so I stopped and looked right at him, and I said, ‘I—beg—your—pardon, I am not doing anything of the kind,’ I said, ‘it’s the people ahead of me, who won’t move up,’ I said, ‘and furthermore, let me tell you, young man, that you’re a low-down, foul-mouthed, impertinent skunk,’ I said, ‘and you’re no gentleman!

Sinclair Lewis

Babbitt

You’ll see—everything will be all right.” Buried under curiosity and scandal-mongering there is a lot of kindness in Caroline.

Agatha Christie

The Murder of Roger Ackroyd

Mr. Agassiz, to whose great kindness I am indebted for much information on the subject, informs me that there are other starfishes, in which one of the three arms of the forceps is reduced to a support for the other two; and again, other genera in which the third arm is completely lost.

Charles Darwin

The Origin of Species

As far and hard away as I could, I opened a door.” There was no longer any trace of kindness or compassion on the angel’s face; only hatred, pure and honest and cold.

Gaiman, Neil

Neverwhere

But consider the kindness by which he has distinguished man, for he has put it in his power not to be separated at all from the universal; and when he has been separated, he has allowed him to return and to be united and to resume his place as a part.

Marcus Aurelius

Meditations

I was guided in this translation by judgments very different from theirs, and by persons for whom they can have no kindness, if an old observation be true, that the strongest antipathy in the world is that of fools to men of wit.

Homer

The Iliad

“The storms did you a kindness, blowing you to my door,” Lord Godric said.

Martin, George, R. R.

A Dance With Dragons

He was a kind man, and had also that bad imitation of kindness, the dislike of any difficulty or scene.

G. K. Chesterton

The Innocence of Father Brown

If I merely were one of your disciples, O venerable one, I’d fear that it might happen to me that only seemingly, only deceptively my self would be calm and be redeemed, but that in truth it would live on and grow, for then I had replaced my self with the teachings, my duty to follow you, my love for you, and the community of the monks!” With half of a smile, with an unwavering openness and kindness, Gotama looked into the stranger’s eyes and bid him to leave with a hardly noticeable gesture.

Hermann Hesse

Siddhartha

Often I am horrified myself when I think of my responsibility; for the Government persecutes us, and the absurd legislation that rules us is a veritable Damocles’ sword over our heads.” Emma no longer dreamed of asking what they wanted her for, and the druggist went on in breathless phrases— “That is your return for all the kindness we have shown you!

Gustave Flaubert

Madame Bovary

Lures to faith are they, those glimpses, And to faith in thee I hold; Kindness cannot make it stronger, Coldness cannot make it cold.

Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra

Don Quixote

Yet they never seemed nearly as crucial to him as the question of kindness and good manners.

Heller, Joseph

Catch-22

If you are unable to come I shall give you fuller details, and would esteem it a great kindness if you would favour me with your opinion.

Arthur Conan Doyle

A Study in Scarlet

Folly and injustice seem to have been the principles which presided over and directed the first project of establishing those colonies; the folly of hunting after gold and silver mines, and the injustice of coveting the possession of a country whose harmless natives, far from having ever injured the people of Europe, had received the first adventurers with every mark of kindness and hospitality.

Adam Smith

The Wealth of Nations